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Boundaries Matter: Books about Consent and Boundaries for Kids

Boundaries matter, and it’s never too early to start the conversation about body safety and autonomy. This collection of books is all about empowerment - helping kids understand the importance of respecting themselves and others while building the confidence to use their voice. With these titles, children can gain the tools they need to protect themselves, set boundaries, and navigate the world with courage and self-assurance.

Tacoma Public Library

19 items

  • Little Nick often felt uncomfortable in situations where his personal space was being violated. He was upset and did not know how to react appropriately. Fortunately, his parents taught him about personal space and body boundaries. He…
    Book[Place of publication not identified] : Go2Publish LLC, [2022] — CJ 158.2 COLE 2022
  • This book teaches that it is okay for kids to say no to hugs and kisses, and that what happens to their body is up to them. This helps children grow up confident in their bodies, comfortable with expressing physical boundaries, and…
    BookPhonics with Finn 2018 — BB
  • Kai, a merboy, loves to share hugs with his mother, but learns that some friends prefer fin bumps, tail claps, tentacle shakes, or claw pinches.
    BookNew York : Dial Books for Young Readers, [2020] — CJ NEILS-E
  • Consent (for Kids!)

    Boundaries, Respect, and Being in Charge of You

    Brian, Rachel, 1971-
    This is a guide to consent and bodily autonomy. Readers will learn about boundaries and how to set them; ways to respect themselves and others; what to do if someone makes them feel uncomfortable or unsafe; and much more. Along the way,…
    BookNew York, NY : Little, Brown and Company, a division of Hachette Book Group, 2020. — JG 158.2 BRIAN 2020
  • Doug prefers not to be hugged, but there are a variety of other ways his loved ones can show him affection
    BookNew York : G. P. Putnam's Sons, [2021] — CJ FINIS-C
  • Aria loves her soft and bouncy hair, but must go to extremes to avoid people who touch it without permission until, finally, she speaks up. Includes author's note.
    BookNew York : Little, Brown and Company, 2018. — CJ MILLE-S
  • The Every Body Book of Consent

    An LGBTQIA-inclusive Guide to Respecting Boundaries, Bodies, and Beyond

    Simon, Rachel E.,
    An LGBTQ+ inclusive guide to consent for children aged 8-10, with beautiful illustrations and questions for further discussion, from the author of the bestselling The Every Body Book. Topics include body autonomy, verbal and nonverbal…
    BookLondon ; Philadelphia : Jessica Kingsley Publishers, 2024. — J 176.4 SIMON 2024
  • Engages young children in the conversation about thier safety and helps them practice the rules of personal safety
    BookMinneapolis, MN : Free Spirit Pub., [2008] — CJ 613.6 F324I 2008
  • Let's Talk About Body Boundaries, Consent & Respect

    a Book to Teach Children About Body Ownership, Respectful Relationships, Feelings and Emotions, Choices, and Recognizing Bullying Behaviors

    Sanders, Jayneen,
    Teaching young children about body boundaries is crucial for their self-confidence and understanding of others' expectations. It gives them ownership over their personal space and encourages respect for others' boundaries. This book…
    BookMacclesfield, Victoria : Educate2Empower Publishing, an imprint of UpLoad Publishing, 2018. — J 158.2 SA564L 2018
  • This straightforward, gentle book offers a tool parents, teachers, and counselors can use to help children feel, be, and stay safe. The rhyming story and simple, friendly illustrations provide a way to sensitively share and discuss the…
    BookMinneapolis, MN : Free Spirit Publishing, [2014] — CJ 362.76 ST282M 2014
  • My Body Belongs to Me from My Head to My Toes is an educational tool to help instill confidence in children when it comes to their bodies. The narrative of the story is led by a girl named Clara, who encourages kids to say no.
    BookNew York : Sky Pony Press, [2014] — CJ 362.76 M9901M 2014
  • My Body! What I Say Goes!

    a Book to Empower and Teach Children About Personal Body Safety, Feelings, Safe and Unsafe Touch, Private Parts, Secrets and Surprises, Consent, and Respectful Relationships

    Sanders, Jayneen,
    This book teaches children essential body safety skills, including identifying safe and unsafe feelings, recognizing early warning signs, developing a safety network, using correct names for private parts, understanding safe and unsafe…
    BookMacclesfield, Victoria : Educate2Empower Publishing, an imprint of UpLoad Publishing Pty Ltd, 2016. — J 362.7672 SA564M 2016
  • A love bird who doesn't like kisses? Rissy's friends and family wonder if she's sick, confused, or rude. But kisses make Rissy uncomfortable. Can she show everyone there's not one right way to share affection?
    BookMinneapolis : Carolrhoda Books, [2021] — CJ HOWES-K
  • A children's picture book emphasizes "safe and unsafe touch," urging children to speak up if anyone approaches them inappropriately, and to never keep certain secrets, especially about their bodies.
    BookVictoria, Australia : UpLoad Publishing Pty Ltd, 2017. — CJ 362.76 SA564S 2011
  • This Is My Body

    I Get to Choose : An Introduction to Consent

    Turner, Brook Sitgraves,
    An anthem for all ages, This is My Body--I Get To Choose features photographs of kids practicing consent out in the real world. Written to help families and educators teach body autonomy and consent, this rhythmic text is a tool for…
    BookBerkeley, CA : Little Feminist Press, [2023] — CJ 158.2 TURNER 2023
  • Under Our Clothes

    Our First Talk About Our Bodies

    Roberts, Jillian, 1971-
    In this illustrated nonfiction picture book, child psychologist Dr. Jillian Roberts introduces young readers to the ideas of body safety and body image.
    BookVictoria, British Columbia : Orca Books Publishers, 2019. — CJ 306.4613 R5426U 2019
  • Our bodies let us know if we feel unsafe or might be in danger and can tell us when we are calm or need healthy touch. In this story, Mr. B helps Deja understand what her body is telling her by asking her to describe what her body is…
    BookMinneapolis, MN : Free Spirit Publishing Inc., [2021] — CJ BOWER-L
  • Welcome to Consent

    How to Say No, When to Say Yes, and How to Be the Boss of Your Body

    Stynes, Yumi, 1975-
    This guide teaches consent and bodily autonomy for various situations, addressing feelings, power imbalances, online safety, and maintaining mutual comfort through relatable illustrations and real-life examples.
    BookSomerville, Massachusetts : Walker Books, 2023. — J 306.70835 ST99W 2021
  • Yes! No!

    a First Conversation About Consent

    Madison, Megan,
    Developed by experts in the fields of early childhood and activism against injustice, this topic-driven board book offers clear, concrete language and imagery to introduce the concept of consent. This book serves to normalize and celebrate…
    BookNew York : Rise, 2022. — CJ 158.2 M2658Y 2022